Thursday, December 31

Happy New Year!!

As I write this, New Zealand and Australia have already welcomed in 2010. We on the east coast of the US, however, are still waiting patiently. In the rain. And in SC, it is a fairly warm rain.
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I've never seen the ball drop in Times Square. I lived an hour's drive away and still never went to see it. Tom went at least once, hurried, hurried, hurried and got there a minute too late. (another instance of "almost" being not good enough)
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NYC began the New Years Eve tradition in 1907 with the first ball drop. The waiters and staff in many Times Square eateries and hotels were given battery powered top hats that lit up 1908 across each head with t-tiny lightbulbs.
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The ball has dropped every year since, except '42 and '43 during NYC's wartime "dimout." The crowd still gathered and bells were chimed, but no lights and no ball. The ball has undergone tons and tons of changes, different size/weight, different materials and colors and recently it has doubled in diameter and possibly tripled in weight, which is probably significant of our current lifestyles.
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The dropping of a ball to mark time seems to date back to maritime needs, a way to mark time for sea captains to set their chronometers. That's the type of thing that really attracts me to the "old days:" Traditions and Symbols for mass communication and community awareness. When I was a kid, for example, the whole neighborhood knew it was dinner time when Mrs. Gabello rang the big bell and all the Gabellos went running home. You could count on Mrs. Gabello's gong. Church bells are another great form of communication. In upstate NY, down the road from the Gabellos, our church bell would ring every Sunday morning and sometimes at odd times whenever, say, me or Matt would swing on the bell rope. In my town today, the Methodist church bells ring each day at noon. I love it and perk up like a dog, nodding my ear towards the north end of town.
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Lights. Lights are another great old form of communication. Combine church bells and lights and you probably think of Paul Revere's Midnight Ride. Two lanterns in the bell tower of Christ Church in Boston meant the troops should cross Charles River by sea instead of by land. (visit Boston if you haven't already, the history is so cool) Then of course there's lighthouses and stop lights, both for communication and order. SOS. Morse Code. That stuff is so cool. Flags - flags are used to communicate.
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I want a secret form of communication in Wagener, a new symbol that only residents and rural neighbors would know. I remember when the Claridge House Bed and Breakfast came to town, somewhere I read that they'd lay out a red carpet on the front steps which would indicate they are serving a public lunch. I thought that was so cool. I just knew I'd stop in for lunch when the red carpet was out. I watched and watched for that red carpet. Never saw it. I was so disappointed. Let's start a new symbol, give me some good ideas!
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Two things I want from 2010:

  • to participate in a Flash Mob
  • to reinstate a new town symbol that would symbolize a call to action.

Tuesday, December 29

Annual Psychological Eval

Are you a "list" person?
Must you grapple around for your "to do" list before you can start your day?


Or is your day like a well-thought-out-and-presented thesis for your PhD?
Does your "to do" list have bullet points and bold lettering?



Or do you accomplish things with the randomness of flipping a coin? Are you a sticky note person with little instructions and reminders all over the place, trying to see a big picture in the random layout of notes like a Rorschach inkblot test?
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The way you do things says a lot about you and each year you should take pause, examine your life, your modus operandi and guage your personality and emotional functioning.
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Might even help with establishing your New Years Resolutions.

I'm struggling. I keep increasing my work-load and increasing my interests and activities without cutting back or decreasing anything. As a result, I'm overwhelmed and way behind. I don't do anything well and I too often do things just enough to get by. I'm confused, unfocused, stressed, ineffective and inefficient. Or maybe I always feel this way in December after a full year of putting things off and not completing each day's "to do" list, putting more and more items on "tomorrow's to-do list." And by December, that baby's long. Too long to accomplish anything so I wad it up, throw it away and begin a fresh new year in January with a short "to-do" list and 364 days ahead of me to accomplish it.
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How do you stay organized?
How do you Get Things Done?
What motivates you?
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Take it a step further: what puts a bounce in your step?
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PS - I'm a sticky note, random person:

Sunday, December 27

Mom's Famous Apple Bread


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Mom's Famous Apple Bread, around these parts, has become known as "Val's Famous Apple Bread," so if you're confused at the title of this post, it's because I've misled all of you and now I have to pay the piper and give credit where credit is due. It's mom's famous recipe, MOM's, OK?
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So we had to whip up a batch for Christmas.
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The Cool Yule and I.
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And I noticed -- I'm really filling out my apron - like a real Grandma! And the spectacles, everything! Grandmaville, here I am.
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But enough about me.
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I've decided to share the recipe. Eva looks startled at the announcement, but, yes, it's true, I'm giving away the secret recipe. (with my evil grin that says "just see if you can figure out the one ingredient I leave out...eee heee heeee")
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1 c. oil
2 c. sugar
3 eggs, beaten
1 tsp. vanilla
2 tsp. cinnamon
3 c. flour
1 tsp. baking soda
1 tsp. salt
3 c. chopped apples, and we mean chopped
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When you've chopped those apples til you're exhausted, chop some more, or get some kid to do it for you, make it a game!
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Combine oil and sugar.
Beat in eggs and vanilla.
Add flour, cinnamon, soda and salt.
Mix well.
Stir in apples.
Put in mini loaf pans.
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Bake at 300 for 1 hr 20 minutes.
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Unplug the beaters. Lick the beaters. Lick the spoon. Lick the bowl.
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Share with friends.

Saturday, December 26

Christmas Shopping for Mommy



So last year when Eva and I were making our list and checking it twice, she said she was getting her mommy "green cereal" for Christmas. Oh yes, she assured me, mommy loves green cereal (Apple Jacks).

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And I took her out to buy and wrap some Apple Jacks, which it turned out Eva herself seemed to like a lot.

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So this year I asked her again what she'd like to buy mommy for Christmas.
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"Oh," she said, "it has to be really beautiful. Pookie! Take me to a very special place where I can buy mommy something beautiful, really, really, really, really beautiful, and very special for Christmas!"
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I put the pedal to the medal...
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...and took her to the most beautiful and really, really special place I know.
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Starbucks.
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She ate an entire cup of whipped cream, danced a ballet in front of a lady who works at the Columbia Ballet and colored a picture for Nana.
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Of course, that wasn't what Eva had in mind, she wanted the most beautiful clothes, so we went clothes shopping. She picked several items to compare and then spotted this leopard print.

"Pookie, mama loves leopard. I have to get her this shirt. She really, really loves leopard." (Kind of like she loves green cereal??)
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Eva counted her money right then and there to see if she could afford it.
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We walked around the store, grabbing gorgeous items willy nilly and tossing them in our cart. We eventually pulled over and sorted through our cart. After careful consideration, she narrowed it down to one complete outfit. Then we had to go to the jewelry department to pick the right necklace to go with it. She took a lot of time picking the perfect necklace and we disagreed on it, so we bought two. My perfect and her perfect.

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Then Eva got sidetracked by the beautiful earrings and had to pick out a pair for Aunt Marjorie. Again, she had to pick the perfect pair and she had to compare several pair in order to do this.

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Finally we had our selections and we went to check out. Eva's a smart shopper. It all fit inside her $2.00 budget. She couldn't believe it, what luck!

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(And did you notice the purple princess gown and wand she managed to slip in there for herself? She wore the gown for the next 4 days non-stop, even to bed, even to church, even to the dr. And she used the wand bibbidy, bobbidy, boo on me three times and turned me into a horse)
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I hope you all had a very Merry Christmas and got everything you ever wanted, especially a princess gown and wand.

Friday, December 25

Merry Christmas From the West Coast

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The UPS man delivered Christmas from the West Coast, woo hoo! Turns out..... Robert _ _ _ _ _ Holsenback sent several packages to the Cool Yule, leaving me wondering "Where's mine???"
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But I was quite excited enough just to find out his middle name which was proudly on the return label.
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And I will reveal it to the highest bidder.
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Click here and here and here to learn more about Robby.
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Robby - Merry Christmas! We miss you and are thinking of you today!

Mary Explains Christmas

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My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord,
and my spirit has rejoiced in God my Savior,
because He has looked with favor on the humble condition of His slave.
Surely, from now on all generations will call me blessed,
because the Mighty One
has done great things for me,
and His name is holy.
His mercy is from generation to generation
on those who fear Him.
He has done a mighty deed with His arm;
He has scattered the proud
because of the thoughts of their hearts;
He has toppled the mighty from their thrones
and exalted the lowly.
He has satisfied the hungry with good things
and sent the rich away empty.
He has helped His servant Israel,
mindful of His mercy,
just as He spoke to our ancestors,
to Abraham and his descendants forever.

Thursday, December 24

Apollo 8 Taught us to Worship the King

Our nation was in a serious slump on December 24, 1968 with the Vietnam War and the assassinations of Martin Luther King Jr. and Robert Kennedy. Our nation was torn, our nation was rioting, our nation was angry and confused, passionately wanting to go in different directions.

With a little help from Boeing, Douglas Aircraft and IBM, NASA engineers had been working furiously in the '60's to orbit the moon. President Kennedy boldly proclaimed that we would land a man on the moon by the end of the decade. NASA - Marshall Space Flight Center -- had three or four different types of rockets in experimentation and finally agreed upon the C-5, consisting of three stages, about 11 or more engines and renamed it Saturn V to up the cool factor and decrease the nerd factor. (my supposition)
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Throughout the '60's Saturn V was used for all the Apollo missions, taking off from Cape Canaveral. She was shipped down the Mighty Mississip, into the Gulf, around Florida, up the Intra Coastal Waterway to the place where we still launch rockets today, the place where my childhood friend launched to spend two weeks on the space station in '08 while I watched the NASA channel every day eating egg salad sandwiches back to back for some odd reason. I watched him board the space station, work on it and work on it's external frame while tethered to the space station and floating in space, at which point I went outside and waved up at him. Just in case.
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But my point. Back to Dec. 24, 1968 and the dream to orbit the moon. The Saturn V arrived at Cape Canaveral, was boarded by three brave astronauts, and blasted off under the name "Apollo 8," with the men being given a 50/50 chance of returning and surviving.
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On Christmas Eve the astronauts transmitted an image of the lunar surface to tv's all across America. On Christmas Eve, this is the message our astronauts sent back to earth:
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"We are now approaching lunar sunrise and, for all the people back on Earth, the crew of Apollo 8 has a message that we would like to send to you.

'In the beginning God created the heaven and the earth. And the earth was without form, and void; and darkness was upon the face of the deep. And the Spirit of God moved upon the face of the waters. And God said, Let there be light, and there was light.....'"
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The astronauts took turns reading the first ten verses of Genesis.

When my friend went to the space station recently, he and his crew had several worshipful moments.
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Amazing how the most scientific among us are brought to their knees in worship.
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Oh, Come, Let us adore Him!